Interviewee: Cynthia (Cyndi) Caton
Interviewer: Leanne Tremblay
Category: Music
Genre: Punk Rock
Location: 222 Richmond St., Suite 201, Brown University Investment Office
Date: May 3, 2006
Length: 49:41
Word count: 8,754
[00:00:03]
LT: Alright, so if you wanna start off
with your, um, full name and date and place of birth.
CC: Today’s date? Or… or just my
place of birth, my date of birth?
LT: Just say your name and date of
birth.
CC: Ok. My name is Cynthia Caton,
people know me as Cyndi and I was born in Rhode Island. North
Providence, Rhode Island, August 7, 1965.
LT: So have you lived in Rhode Island
your whole life?
CC: I have, um, I’m a native. I never
moved out. I’ve lived all over the state. You know, done some
traveling outside of the country. But I have always lived in Rhode
Island.
LT: So, what town did you grow up in?
In North Providence?
CC: I grew up in North Providence,
which is a suburb of Providence; it’s um, you know, a bedroom
community. At the time there certainly wasn’t any industry there,
people’d just go to live and then they’d work in the city or
somewhere else. A very Italian population. I’m not Italian myself,
but there’s a lot of Italians there.
LT: And so how many brothers and
sisters do you have?
CC: I have a brother and a sister, I
have a… we’re all three years apart, I’m the oldest, and then
it’s my brother and my sister still lives in Rhode Island.
LT: So, um, what did your parents do
when you were growing up?
CC: My mother, um, my mother at the
time was working at Brown University. She worked in BioMed. And my
parents were divorced when I was younger so I didn’t actually know
my father growing up for most of my life. Um, my parents divorced
when I was about five years old and I didn’t see him for about
fourteen years. So at the time that I was in my formative years, in
high school, I didn’t know him at all. Uh, he was a state trooper
though. At the, uh, during those years, and uh, my mother was married
to her third husband at the time, and… when I was in high school
and he owned a jewelry manufacturing business in Providence.
LT: So, where did you go to high
school?
CC: I went to North Providence High
School and so I went to high school from 1979-1983 and I graduated,
whoo-hoo! Um, it was a, I hated high school, with like a burning
passion. Absolutely hated it, if I could erase those four years I
would, um, it was a I, I didn’t really relate to anybody there it
was very, this is gonna sound stupid, it was a very disco high
school, it kind of, at the time it was really stupid. You know,
Saturday Night Fever had come out and you were separated between what
they called the Hicks and the Guidos. And um, I was with the, you
would have considered a Hick, cause I was listening to rock n’
roll. It sounds really dumb, you know 20 years later to think about
you know segregating friends around music lines, but there it was.
And North Providence had, uh, a portion of it had an affluent
community and I was in a middle class neighborhood. But there were
some people who had a lot of money and so; some kids would be really
dressed to the nines all the time. They’d be kind of poufied
discoed out, and I just didn’t relate to that crowd, so therefore I
had very few friends growing up and very few friends in North
Providence. I actually can’t think of one female friend that I had,
so uh, absolutely hated high school.
[00:03:07]
LT: So, what about after high school?
What did you do next?
CC: After high school, I was um, you
know, just kind of a lost soul, I think, you know it’s funny, I
never got into drugs or alcohol or anything. But I was kind of a
self-destructive person. I was looking for; I was just looking for
something that was mine, something I could connect to. And um, I kind
of fell into the um, punk rock scene, here in Providence, you know.
When I hit 18, I discovered the Living Room, which is in a different
place than it was know, you know and I just started going to these
punk shows that were all ages and met groups of people there that I
could start to relate to, probably because they were as
self-destructive as I was. And um, just started doing that right
after high school and was into the punk scene for several years and
then just needed some direction in my life, so I joined the Air
Force. And I was only in the Air Force through basic training and I
had gotten injured and was out just after basic training was over,
was just off on my merry way. I uh, and then I just started, I got a
job at Brown and just started working different places.
LT: What do you mean you were
self-destructive?
CC: Well you know, I think, um, because
I didn’t have a good, I didn’t have really and strong friends in
high school and I had started dating a guy who was physically
abusive; he used to hit me. And because I didn’t go the kind of
drugs and alcohol route, and kind of medicate myself, I think I just
had a lot of rage against myself and my family. My parents saw what
was happening and they didn’t really do anything to help me. They
didn’t really prevent him seeing me or me seeing him, and sometimes
he would hit me in our house and my siblings had witnessed it, and
they never did anything to try and protect me. So I think I just had
all this rage at like you know, 16, 17, I didn’t know what to do
and so I didn’t turn anywhere, I just turned it inward. So when I
found punk rock, there was this sort of thing we would do and it was
called slam dancing. And it’s like the mosh pit and stuff, but at
the time we always referred to it as slam dancing. And I used to go
and just, you know, thrash my heart out all the time and I’d come
home and sometimes I couldn’t move and I’d have bruises, you
know, not just, because I was trying to get out all that aggression
and I just didn’t know what to do with it. So, I was
self-destructive that way. But also, really consciously trying not to
go down the drugs and alcohol route, because I saw what it did to
people and I thought it was just stupid and I couldn’t relate to
them.
[00:05:41]
LT: So, then, punk rock was like an
outlet for you.
CC: Punk rock was a big outlet for me
and there was um, I loved the political messages behind it. You know
the Circle Jerks, you know, they hated society, or you know, they
weren’t you know, Republican. Which is, they were just on the
fringes and trying to do something right for the world, or having an
alternate statement that you didn’t really hear anywhere else, you
know the internet wasn’t around. I didn’t know about; the Phoenix
is a new paper, so punk rock was my way of connecting with people who
are a little bit more radical and liberal.
LT: So then what were you doing for
work at the time?
CC: At the time, I was, um, when I had
just gotten out of high school, I was working; I was going to Rhode
Island College. I went to Rhode Island College for a year and that’s
when I really started getting into photography, even though I wasn’t
an art major, or into photography at all, I was taking pictures and I
had met a guy who showed me how to use the dark room there. And so I
was in the dark room all the time, um, and then I was um, working as
a waitress, um, six days a week. And pulling in like decent money at
like a family restaurant. You know that was enough to like pay for
camera equipment and film and go to punk shows and things like that.
LT: So, were you taking any photography
classes or did you just teach yourself, basically?
CC: I, I just taught myself. I was
really into painting. So I was taking a lot of painting and drawing
classes for a long time and before I had gotten interested in
photography I was really into painting. So I was doing a lot of oils
and um, once I learned how to use a darkroom I immediately got myself
an enlarger and had moved out of the house and had set up a room as a
darkroom and I was always printing pictures, mostly of bands, and
friends, and sometimes I would meet people in clubs; women. Like
usually women. I would say can I photograph you? And I really just
fell in love with mostly black and white. I got my portfolio here,
which I brought today. Of, um, some of the bands that I took pictures
of.
LT: We can take a look at that and talk
about it if you want.
CC: Ok. Sure! This was um, this was a
band called the Circle Jerks. And I think they were from California,
I’m not sure. But this was at Lupo’s Heartbreak Hotel in, not in
the place they are now, but the place before that. I don’t remember
where all those streets are.
LT: I think they’re on Westminster, I
think that before, they were on Westminister.
CC: I think so. I think it was
probab—uh, I don’t remember. It’s where, before where they are
now, the one just before that. Yeah. This was um, the lead singer of
the Circle Jerks; I love this picture for a couple reasons. First, he
had broken his back, so he’s in a back brace. He’s really kind of
this short guy, and he’s all like, upright. I like this picture
because you can see down his mouth into his tonsils. And this was a
print that I did back in the 80s, so it’s really kept very well.
And I also like this band Motorhead too, which is kind of a fun heavy
metal band from England. And, um, this was a woman that I had met at
a wedding in Providence and I asked her if I could photograph her. So
we went to the Roger Williams Park, I think it’s over here, down
where the big Roger Williams statue is, and I took her picture. She’s
a beautiful person. And, um, this was Beavertail. I think, that Sara
had put stickies on ones that I said were from Rhode Island. And,
this was England, so I should probably skip this. This was also the
Festival Ballet, which is located in North Providence at the time
that I was taking pictures of them, but I think now they’ve moved
their headquarters, but the Festival Ballet is a local ballet company
and once I came back from the military I was just trying to figure
out who I was and it was funny, I was gone for such a brief time, but
when I came back I felt like punk was dead and there just weren’t
bands coming around anymore. I dunno if the uh, music scene was
shifting and at the time I was taking pictures I didn’t notice it,
but when I came back it was like the scene was gone, it was really
odd. So I still was like, very interested in photography so I started
going to places with things that I liked to photograph and I would go
and ask if I could take pictures. I had called then and said can I
come and watch a rehearsal and take pictures of their performances
and they would use them sometimes for their programs. It was a no pay
job, but it was great. I was just really into black and white
photography and stopping motion, you know, that kind of thing.
Playing with uh, pushing film speeds. These are two little kids from
England, when I was in England. These are two more pictures from the
festival ballet. These are pictures from Rhode Island College. And
then this was a young woman that I had met at a club, at the Living
Room and asked if I could photograph her privately and she said I
could. She had this weird kind of angular face and you know, she
could contort herself in interesting ways. She was neat, and uh, this
is a Renaissance Fair in Providence. I think it was one of the last
Ren Fairs that was done in Pembroke Field, I think. This is another
of that young woman that I had photographed. This is a little boy
that this was taken on the Brown Quad. I used to work at the Brown
Photo Lab back when they had one in the 80s and this is one of my
coworker’s sons, a really cute little kid. And this was one of the
ballerinas from Festival Ballet. And this was a guy who was in a band
with my, uh, I have an ex-husband who was in a local band in Rhode
Island, and I had photographed him because he had a great face. And,
these weren’t taken in Rhode Island, but… this was taken in
Boston. I’ll mention it because I was sitting near the stage, I had
gotten really close and I was sitting behind the monitor and I had
bent down to check my camera when I had sat back up somebody had
jumped over my head and I broke my tooth on the monitor, so I got a
great picture. ::gestures to tooth:: This one’s not real. And then
this was after the Ren Fair, I was sitting on the steps, I was
sitting on the sidewalk in Providence waiting for the bus and these
two old ladies started going like back and forth and I was just
taking pictures of them. It was great. And these are more for the
Festival Ballet. They were doing an inventory of their crowns; they
were taking headshots of all the different crowns that they would use
for performances. And that was a dog I had that died. He was cute.
And these were some pictures I had taken at Brown graduation back
when Stevie Wonder had gotten an honorary degree, so that’s Stevie
Wonder right there. And that’s the portfolio. And then when I knew
that I was going into the Air Force I had, I was really kind of at a
loose end in my life, I had gone through a year of Rhode Island
College, and I was having, I didn’t really get along with my family
too well, I just, you know my mother had different goals for me than
I did, I just couldn’t seem to latch onto anything. I decided to
join the military; the stupidest thing, because I just didn’t know
what else to do. So I unfortunately I had decided to join and I had
signed the paperwork and then it took them 9 months to find a job for
me. So what you do is you don’t go in until they have a job. And
during that whole time, of course, my whole life changed, but when I
knew I was going, I took some of the best pictures I had taken and I
created by own photozine of all these um, pictures that I had done,
and this, this particular person was in a band called the Idle Rich.
I just made it up, I did all these pictures and I had them all
screened so that they would photocopy really well, and I did all
these like local bands and stuff like that, so. I put a lot of, at
the time, there was no Photoshop, there was no digital pictures,
there was no, you know they didn’t have scanners or anything; it
was me just getting the pictures screened so that they photocopied
well. I don’t even think we found, I don’t even think there was a
computer, you know, we didn’t have computers in the house at the
time, this was probably the mid-80s, so you know, I just wanted to go
out with a bang. I had been doing, I had done some album covers for
some local bands and I had done some stuff for like, both in Boston,
and here, I had done some small punk magazines. I would sell pictures
to them and I decided to just take the best of them and make my own,
so, that’s what these are. You probably don’t need to go through
all of them.
[00:14:55]
LT: So what did you do with those, um,
photozine, did you distribute it, or…
CC: I did, I photocopied it and then I
paid for it all and then photocopied it and sold a bunch to some
local record stores so that they could, um, like Tom’s Tracks. I
don’t know if Tom’s Tracks is still open. There was In Your Ear
and Tom’s Tracks and they both used to be on Thayer Street. So, I
had sold some to them and they would sell them to people who came it.
And they were all sold, they were all, I didn’t have any left over,
so it was a successful venture, I think. I had even taken pictures
of, I don’t know if you know who Henry Rawlins is, he used to be in
a band called Black Flag, but if you watch VH1 or Independent Film
Channel now, he’s usually a talking head in it, and he’s gone
from being a punk rock guy to almost like a media darling. I think
his old self probably would slap his new self. ::HAHAHAHA:: But
sometimes, I’d like to! You know, so I did, I took these pictures
and would try and sell them or get them to people who were interested
in these kinds of things. This was a band that I took pictures of at
the Living Room, they were called Nig Heist, they actually performed
on stage completely naked. And one of these guys from another band,
the Idle Rich, was so indignant that he got up and started punching
them, and he was thrown out of the club and they continued to play
naked. So, I don’t know why he was so upset by it. It seemed like
such a goofy thing, like who cares! If they don’t care that they’re
naked, I don’t care that they’re naked. And it was an all ages’
show, but yeah, he got really upset by it. So yeah, a little bit of
Living Room History.
[00:16:53]
LT: So, then what happened? Did you
keep photographing?
CC: Photographing. After I came back
from the military, I started doing a lot with the Festival Ballet and
you know, there wasn’t just a lot of bands around anymore. I had, I
had, gotten married and divorced in a very brief period of time. I
had gotten married to a local musician. And I used to go to clubs
before I got married, I used to go to clubs all the time, to meet
people. Not like, um, the clubs, I shouldn’t say clubs, I used to
go to see bands all the time. I didn’t go to clubs to hang out and
get drunk and get laid. I went to see bands all them time to take
pictures of them. And I had met what was to become by ex-husband. And
it was interesting. After he and I had started dating, I just
completely stopped going to clubs, I lost my taste for it. And he was
always going to clubs, because he was in a band, and so he was
playing in a band all the time and I would go see him occasionally,
but I was absolutely disinterested completely. And I think I just
started reading a lot more and I suppose maturing a little. Not that
I didn’t think being a photographer was mature, but we didn’t, we
were moving in different directions, and I think I saw going to see
bands, going to see bands as something that was, I needed to evolve
from, that I needed to start doing something else, and I felt that I
wasn’t photographing as much as I had been. And I think also, that
film had gotten really expensive. I had been working in photo labs
for quite a while so I could get film developed for free and
discounts on film and everything. Once I couldn’t do that anymore,
than it really became cost prohibitive, because of course there were
no digital cameras at the time. And I really wanted to get a real
job, too. Like I still wanted to pursue a career in art and I had
been going to RISD at night and wanted to be a painter, so I realized
in order to continue to go to school at night, I needed to get a good
job during the day. So that was my goal, I needed to get a good job
during the day so I could go to art school at night. And I ended up
going to Katherine Gibbs to get a secretarial degree, like I was
thinking, just get this job, and then I can do this stuff. And that,
and I did, I went to Katherine Gibbs and I did really well and got a
series of secretarial jobs, but during the course of that time my
marriage completely fell apart, because my ex-husband didn’t want
somebody who wanted a job and go to school he wanted somebody to go
to the clubs and do that sort of thing. But I just really, with him
it was a bad marriage and I had just lost my taste for it, and I
didn’t want to do that. He hadn’t wanted a family, he just wanted
to be in a band and go to clubs. So we divorced, uh, a year and a
half after we got married. And uh, and I just, I think also in
retrospect, too, that I had thought of going to Katharine Gibbs to
get a good job and then I could continue this art, but I think what
ended up happening too is that I got caught in a cycle of, ok, you
didn’t get a higher education degree, you got a secretarial
certificate, so you can do this sort of work, and it’s really hard
to break out of that. So I think if I had been smarter about it at
the time I probably would have gotten my butt back in college, picked
a liberal arts program and just tried to do something with that, and
gotten a really good job, instead of a good enough job, so that I
could continue to be an artist.
[00:20:33]
LT: So, but have you continued with
that? With your painting?
CC: I you, know, I haven’t continued
with the painting, and I don’t, I don’t know why. And it’s
funny because I so desperately wanted to go to school and I wanted so
desperately to have a job so I could like be a painter, but I think I
was starting to realize that even with the photography that there
just wasn’t any money in it. And I ended up getting a job at RISD,
of all places, and was continuing with some of the night school
there, and of course, I could go free, so it just seemed like this
was perfect. It was like that be careful for what you wish for,
because as soon as I got there and began to take these classes, I was
like, this isn’t what I want. It was really odd. Um, and I think
that’s probably been what’s been part of my problem, or you know,
my life story, is that I’ve been so untethered, for most of my
life, and um, so even though I could work at RISD and go to school
for free, I lost my taste for painting. It was a really strange
thing, and what I decided to do, I really wanted to finish my
bachelors, so I started going to Providence College at night to
complete my bachelor’s degree. And, uh, I was going through just
different emotional issues, still not a person who has a lot of
friends or a good family life. And my father was also dying. We had
hooked up when I was like 22 and then he died about 6 years later, so
it was just kind of this emotional rollercoaster of me trying to find
a person to spend my life with, not really having friends to tether
me or to socialize with and not really having any kind of career
direction, so I just was really this person trying to, it’s almost
like jumping from flower to flower and tasting a whole bunch of
different things, but never really being satisfied with anything. So…
I uh, I was going to Providence College and then I met the man who is
now my husband and also in the meantime I got involved with Paganism
and Wicca and Witchcraft and that was something that really tethered
me and really kind of focused me and I spent a lot of time learning
about it and got in with a group and went through a bunch of magical
– a series of what they call initiations, where you learn more and
are considered like an initiated witch. So that, that kind of gave me
a little of stability of all things, because it gave me kind of a
spiritual focus and something to work towards that really was for me
and meant something to me and also in the process I was meeting my
husband and we have a family. And I took some time off from PC to
raise my kids and now that they’re, they’re still young, but I’m
back at school finishing and I should be done in a couple of years,
so I’m really excited about that.
LT: So what are you studying now?
[00:23:47]
CC: I’m studying, I when I went back
to school I really wanted be an anthropologist, because when I was
taking anthropology classes, one of my professors said you can’t be
an anthropologist in the culture that you’re living in, you have to
kind of be, you study people outside the culture, because if you’re
in the culture you’re participating in it, rather than being able
to study it. And one of the themes in my life is that I’ve never
felt a part of any culture, so I always felt like I was studying
people, mostly I felt like I was looking for ways to fit in, but I
also felt like I was also trying to see how people interacted,
because I never really got it. I was always like, is this normal, is
that normal? It was always kind of strange for me. But then I got
kind of scared off, which kind of stupid, but it shows my kind of
youth or immaturity because people would be like, oh, they’re
backstabbers in anthropology and they steal each other’s papers and
you know, like higher education is the wrong place to be, there’s
always fighting and backbiting and I thought, ok, I’m not a
competitive person like that, so maybe I won’t do this, but I think
now, as I’ve grown up, well, you know, maybe those are just
isolated incidents or something. And I thought, maybe it’s like
that, maybe it’s not, but I never really gave it a chance and so I
think that was probably part of the reason why I had gotten through a
portion of my degree program and then I just stopped, because I
didn’t know what the hell I wanted to do.
But we wanted to have kids, so I
started a family and then um, I was taking an astrology class and the
astrologer had done my chart and she said you need to finish your
degree, you need to do this, because your life is gonna be right
until you do. So, I was like, I hadn’t even thought about doing
that so, I said ok. I was in like a really bad period of this
emotional roller coaster that I put myself through, so I decided to
enroll back in school and it was true, everything just started to
settle down for me again. So now I’m back at PC and I’m getting a
bachelor of science and my concentration is this leadership program,
which is actually kind of awesome, cause it, it just fulfills… it
fulfills me. For a person like me, it’s not just like any
humanities degree or anything, it’s just this program is, has a lot
of practical application for me as a person. To see how to get things
done, I guess. But, but during this time also, this kind of lower
layer of me trying to find myself, I worked at RISD for a long time,
I worked at RISD for about 5 and a half years in the President’s
office, and I was there when um, Tom Shooty was there, and then he
resigned, and then we had an interim president, and then we had Roger
Mandel, who is there now.
And um, I left after about 2 and a
half years, because, unfortunately RISD is a small college and it
didn’t have, it doesn’t have, the opportunity that Brown has and
I ended up getting another, I got married and I ended up going to
England for a little while to be with my husband’s family, because
he’s British and then I started working at AT Cross for a little
but because I was just unfocused and the I ended up getting a job at
a local manufacturing company and I was there for about 4 or 5 years
and I became their quality assurance manager, which was just
something I loved, because they made solder and you had to follow
rules, you had to be structured, and this was how things were done,
and this was how things went out, and I really liked that. But then,
there was a lot of trouble and the marked slowed down and people
weren’t buying anything, and unfortunately, their let their quality
assurance department go, because that was, it wasn’t a money making
department, so I found myself wondering just what I am going to do? I
didn’t want to go back to being a secretary or assistant, but that
was the fastest way of getting a job, a good job, and I ended up
working in Boston for a little while and decided to you know, coming
back to Providence, because it was hard for my kids, and I came here,
and I’ve been here for about 3 years.
[00:28:01]
LT: So, what do you do here?
CC: I’m an executive assistant, so I
ended up staying in the uh, in this type of work, because of what I
always thought I wanted to do: have a job that pays my bills and then
do what I want to do on my off time. So, I support a few of the
managers in the office and it’s, you know Brown is actually an
excellent employer. And it’s a, Brown’s an excellent place to be,
but, you know, a job’s a job, and it has its good days and bad
days. We’re a small office and some of the interpersonal
relationships are a little tense at times, because, you know, if some
people don’t care for each other then, you know, the whole office
feels it and it vibrates throughout, and I just try and think you
know, if you’re gossiping, then you don’t have enough work to do.
So, I try to keep to myself most of the time. And I think that goes
back to being in high school, like not really being connected to
anybody. I’m not really connected to anybody here, as like making
any friends. I just try and do my thing and be pleasant and then go
home and have my life. So that’s kind of what I think here, of like
work in general?
[00:29:11]
LT: So are you still like, working on
your degree? Or are you?
CC: I am. No, I’m still working. I
have a couple more years left to go, this semester’s over this
week, so I’m really excited about that, who-hoo! And I’m taking
classes this summer, because unfortunately, with um, the leadership
program, all the classes that I need to fulfill for the core are not
offered all the time throughout the year, so when they come up I just
have to grab it and take it at that time. Uh, and I also run, a, I
work with a couple of other women and we have a local, I couldn’t
quite call it a coven, but it’s a working group for pagans. We hold
open circles at the First Unitarian Church at the corner of Benefit
and Benevolent. So, we spend a lot of time having rituals and doing
outreach and having a lot of classes, public and private to educate
people in uh, you know any kind of pagan practitions, practice, you
know, that kind of thing. So that’s what I end up doing at night,
and, you know. Raise my kids. And I’ve actually gotten back into
photography. I’d love to have a darkroom, but I think you know,
paper and chemicals are really kind of cost-prohibitive, so I find
myself taking a lot of pictures with a digital camera all the time
and then editing it out. So I feel like that kind of came back to me.
Although I’d like to use, I prefer to use a regular camera, but I
just use what I can to take pictures and do photography.
[00:30:48]
LT: So how old are your kids now?
CC: My kids, my oldest is gonna be 9
this month and my youngest is 5 and a half. And we live in
Cumberland, one of them is in the Cumberland public school system,
and the little guy is still in preschool because he wasn’t old
enough to go this September. They’re very cute little boys. And my
husband is at Brown at well. He had gotten his PhD here, PhD in
English, but he works at the Women Writer’s Project. And he uh, he
loves his job. His job, like I always laugh and say his office is
like this little utopia, great people work there, and there’s no
real boss. He really likes his job. Well, he has a boss, but it’s
not kind of structured, with this hierarchy that can be prohibitive.
He has a boss and she lets him so his thing, and he reports to her
and they get their work done. So it’s kinda this utopia for an
office.
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LT: So is that like really hard on you
guys, like commuting into the city everyday?
CC: You know, it’s not, because
Cumberland is only like 20, 25 minutes away, we’re right off the
highway. If we were in a different part of Cumberland, it would be a
lot harder. And his job is really flexible, he, we each take a boy, I
take Evan to daycare and Paul puts Ben on the bus, so uh, we end up
working out a routine that’s fine for us. And he has a little more
flexibility, when he can come and so, so he picks up the kids from
school. And actually, we have a great family, we have a nice home
life and I think that’s, my beginnings were really rocky and
feeling untethered and as I’ve gotten older, I’ve just fallen
into the things that I’ve wanted. Like I’ve got a stable family
and husband and I’ve got these two little boys and even though I’m
pagan I’ve joined the Unitarian church with the kids and I’ve
signed them up for Sunday school and I’ve become very involved with
the Unitarian church as openly as a Pagan and you don’t have to
sign anything else away and they accept me for who I am and will help
promote our group in the church. And I like this idea of being in
this kind of Christian environment and doing something really Pagan,
something that might be considered blasphemous and the Unitarians are
like yeah, whatever, our new minister’s coming, we’ll make sure
he goes to your circle. And that’s been a really good thing, too.
My life’s kinda settled as I’ve gotten older and uh, I’m
hoping, I don’t know what, career-wise anything’s gonna bring.
Cause I thought when I was a quality assurance manager I’d NEVER be
a secretary or an assistant again. Not that it’s a bad thing, but
it’s not glamorous and it doesn’t make a lot of money and people,
like you’re supporting people instead of like leading and doing
this sort of thing. But, um. So I’m not sure what’ll happen in
the future, but I’m open to, once I finish my degree, I’m hoping
that a job will open up that I’ll just be perfect for.
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LT: So what kind of job do you think
that you’re gonna be looking for?
CC: I um, I think I’d like to stay
with the non-profits, because I just feel like I, I wanna do, things
that are good for the world, and I’m not, although of course I’d
like to make enough money to support me and my family, I’m not
looking for a job for money, um I’d like it to have flexibility,
but I’d just like to find a cause that I could work towards and
promote and I’m hoping something environmental or with kids, um,
educational, or educating, minorities, just wanting to take whatever
passion and energy I have, and hopefully, skill, and just give it to
somebody, give it to a job that is meaningful. I don’t know what
that is! Which is my problem, it’s been like my whole life I don’t
know what to do! But I keep saying to my children, no matter what,
you finish your education, you finish it while you’re young,
because you don’t wanna be a 40 year old person and not done and
not sure of where you’re going, you wanna take care of it now.
Because life is gonna pile things on you and you’re just gonna feel
overwhelmed by it and you’ve just gotta take care of things while
you’re young. And the thing is, the kind of silver lining for me
is, that I’m really kind of enjoying school this time around. Even
from, you know, 8 years ago when I stopped going, the Providence
College program has changed, even like, the senior program at night,
is very different, there’s a lot of variety, there’s a lot of
choice, the teachers are awesome, so I have found that I’m getting
a lot out of it, probably more, certainly more than I got out of it
when I went to RIC. I didn’t know what the hell I wanted to do, and
you know, now I’m really enjoying school, and putting a lot into it
and doing well, because, you know, I needed that time to mature and
figure out that taking classes mattered to me. I think that when I
was in high school, it didn’t. My parents had no involvement in my
life really, so they didn’t know what I was getting for grades, or
what I was doing in school, the just didn’t really care, they were
busy having a dysfunctional marriage. So, uh, I was just kinda left
on my own to do my own thing and work a lot. I was working way too
much for someone in high school because then I wasn’t getting my
work done and I was in this abusive relationship. You know, I just
wasn’t, when I was getting ready for college I just wasn’t
prepared. Because I didn’t know what that meant to be on my own and
taking care of classes, and all that, I just didn’t know what I was
doing. And so, now I’m in a better place to appreciate my education
and try and direct it to things that I might be interested in. You
know.
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LT: So what do you see yourself doing
with the photography now?
CC: Well I’ve been um, trying to
photograph our circles, for our… we have a group called Gais Hearth
and we have a website and I took some pictures at our last circle and
I put those up. You know, I don’t know, um, I went to the beach
with my kids last week and I took about 100 pictures of the ocean.
You know, just the different waves, but you know, I took that break
different than that break and then I ended up just keeping every
single one of them as screen savers. You know, I don’t know. There
was a time like I had stopped taking pictures for years. Just didn’t
take any, any pictures. And it wasn’t until I had kids that I was
like well; you know I want to record their growing up. So I had just
lost my taste for it, again. These things I just get so wrapped up in
and then just stop doing. So I don’t know what now. I think now I’m
just in it for the pleasure. I think part of the problem is that I
just don’t see the digital camera as an artistic tool and I know
with different software I can make it more artistic, you know, as the
technology advances, and I can play with the lenses. I mean, I had my
regular camera was one that didn’t have any kind of batteries in
it, which meant it was fully manual, you know there’s no, not even
a light sensor, nothing. And I just knew my F-stops and my exposures
and everything, my film speeds; I was just really in tuned with what
it was to have a completely manual camera. The digital camera, I just
haven’t found it, because I don’t like the lack of control. So,
for me it’s less about art and more like, color, I think merging
colors and light, but I haven’t found it’s artistic uses yet. And
I keep trying to find that perfect picture of the moon, and I can’t
seem to find, can’t take a perfect picture of the moon with my
little digital camera, so I keep trying to do that. But I suppose, I
think these things kind of emerge back for me. I keep thinking I’ll
go back into painting, but I don’t see that happening, I just
don’t, I think what I ended up finding in myself is that I became
this strong ritual writer, just writing rituals for our Pagan
holidays and found myself expressing what I needed to in writing the
rituals. And I found myself expressing what I needed to say to the
gods and I would construct these elaborate 6 page scripts for the
group and I think I found an elaborate outlet in that. I think of the
phrase for what I want to say and then having other people say it.
They’re like writing little mini plays; they are mini plays. So
that’s been a nice experience. I collect a lot of statues; I’m
really into statues of like, Venus, and the goddesses in particular.
I’ve said I’ve never met a Venus statue I didn’t like. He comes
out and I’m like, well can I afford it, and where am I gonna put
it? And is my husband gonna say anything when I have like another
Venus statue? It kind of borders on obsession I think. So I think
that instead of becoming this creator of like physical art, I found
myself purchasing it more, or like doing different things like that.
Like displaying it. I bought a little, I never really bought anyone
else’s art before, but I bought this watercolor that’s just
wonderful of this, I don’t know what it was, it was a woman, and it
was her face, and she looked like an evil fairy, but it was great, it
was a local artist and I was like, ohhh! My first piece of art! It
was a fun thing to do. So…is there anything else you wanna ask me,
or? I don’t know if there’s……I dunno.
[00:41:24]
LT: Well is there anything else that
you wanna say about… any of this?
CC: I think, um ::phone call in office
interrupts interview::
[00:42:23]
CC: Um, I think, you know I was really
kind of excited when I took a look at what the professor was doing
for the underground scene in Rhode Island and different, I dunno,
subcultures that were happening. I think that’s something that
really spoke to me. Like the punk movement, and the punk scene in
Rhode Island and I spent a lot of time in Boston and I went to a lot
of shows in Boston and it was just this, really, aggressive, but odd
time, too. I think you had a lot of kids in dysfunctional lives just
coming together and hearing music, and you know, doing violent
dancing and then just going off and having their lives. I made some
really interesting friends and some, and it was funny how so many of
the kids with like Mohawks and shabbily dressed were from Barrington
and their parents had gobs of money and they were just super bright
and they were just looking for something different in their lives and
just not happy with what was going on in the mid-80s and just finding
their place. You know, I think that, you know, you could really see
the culture changing then. You had like Regan in the white house and
you could see just, it didn’t resonate with a lot of the youth
culture and it was just that so many of these kids that I thought,
you know, you just see them, they look like little punks who were
just street urchins and you’d go to their houses and they just
lived in these you know these huge places and were so bright about
what they were doing with their future. And then you’d also meet
some kids who really were on the street. So it’s this kinda weird
thing in Providence. Of course, the bands, there were a lot more
clubs, and then there was this club, I don’t know if it was called
the Rock at first or Club Babyheads, it was all these places that you
could go to see bands. It isn’t quite the same anymore. There
weren’t gangs like there are now and of course, there was street
violence, but not quite like the trouble they’re having at say,
Diesel, now or anything like that and um, so it was fun to be a part
of. But it’s sad to see how times change. Like even, there’s not
even local record stores anymore, like if I wanted to make a fanzine
now, I wouldn’t have any place to sell it other than the Internet.
There’s not a lot of small little businesses that would carry them
anymore. So…
[00:45:13]
LT: So, you think it was more the music
itself, or the community?
CC: A lot of these kids seemed to know
each other; so I think there would be groups of kids who would come
in from different places like particularly Newport and Barrington.
They would be in bands and they’d carry their little entourage, so
they would all have this community where they knew each other. Like,
I know I was drawn to the music at first and was looking for a
community to be a part of, and unfortunately, I was the only person
that I knew of in North Providence that was going to punk shows. So,
I never really fit in as well. I dated in and out of the circles, but
never really latched onto anybody in particular, so… I think, um.
Also everybody was evolving to. They were either in college or going
to college and you know, as time grew on they were graduating and
getting jobs. There didn’t seem to be any younger generation taking
out place, so everything just fizzled out, I guess.
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LT: So, was it mostly local bands or
people coming in on tour?
CC: There was kinda a combination of
both local bands and people coming in. The local bands, were um, they
seemed to have a lot of heart and dedication, uh, and then there
would be like headlining bands that would come and bring the crowds
to the clubs. Um, they were fun. There was some bands like Vicious
Circle and Verbal Assault, the Idle Rich, and the Proletarian
Warriors, like all these kind of angry young men shouting and
thrashing and playing their guitars loud and fast. But, they were
young, and they were excited about something and you, know, had a
voice, where they couldn’t, not that they necessarily had
oppressive parents, but it wasn’t something that you lived in, you
know, it was something that you went to, I suppose.
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LT: So how was it different in
Providence than in Boston?
CC: Um, in Boston I think they had um,
their local bands seemed to be older in a lot of ways. And more
established, there were a lot more places to play. I think, also,
Boston drew bigger names, they could probably afford more. So you
had, um, you had more put together shows, you had, you know, local
bands who seemed to be more organized about what they were doing. And
you had Providence, it felt like sometimes you felt like you were in
somebody’s basement, you know, watching, some of these kids really
were just practicing in their basement and then going to the Living
Room, you didn’t have like the um, I don’t want to say
sophistication, but they weren’t as practiced as some of the Boston
bands. You actually had to know how to play in Boston, that kind of
thing. And you know, because I think they had to go around and submit
tapes or let the club listen to some music before you were booked,
where I don’t think that the Living Room always did that. I
remember seeing some kids who would like have their lyrics in front
of them, sitting down and trying to figure out their songs. You know,
you don’t like paying money to see that. But it was funny to watch.
You know, there was a lot of disorganization, I think, with the scene
for a while.
[00:48:35]
LT: So was it mostly men musicians?
CC: I would say, yes. I would say I
can’t think of, other than, what’s that girl band?... From
Newport? Darn, I can’t remember their names. There was one, but
they weren’t even, they weren’t even punk. But yeah, 99% of it
was gonna be young men with no hair and you know, kinda baggy jeans,
just playing, yeah, there was very few women. And sometimes there
would be a front woman, but not, not usually. It was very
male-dominated. But there were a lot of women in the audience, you
know, either because it was their boyfriend up there, or they wanted
a boyfriend, or you know, that was the thing, there always seemed to
be a lot of girls in the crowd, even if they weren’t onstage.
[00:49:31]
LT: Ok, well, that’s about it.
CC: Okay.
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